Indian men are stupid. But they aren’t born stupid, they are brought up stupid.
An average Indian man can never accept that a girl rejected him. I have seen many guys who after arrange marriage meetings say that I rejected her because she wasn’t my type. While actually it can be the reverse scenario. They say so because their male ego doesn’t allow them to say truth. And where does this male ego come in them? It is from their brought up. They are taught that their proposals can never get rejected. They are not born to listen “no” and if you are rejected buddy there is a big fault in you. While actually they must be taught while they were brought up that girl has the right to reject you as equal as you have right to reject her proposal, rejection is a part of life and accept it in a positive way. By getting a rejection from one doesn’t make you the bad guy or proves that there is a fault in you or doesn’t make you unaccepted by all. Everyone has a choice and you may not get fit into it and doesn’t mean at all that you are not a good guy. Two good people can’t make a good pair always.

The other thing that most of the men misunderstand is that the girl who proposes him is always the right girl for him. It is never that because she loves you she becomes the right partner for you or you become the universally accepted guy. Well will talk about it some other time.

So the basic thing that every guy must be taught is that your every demand can’t be fulfilled and that’s completely fine. No need to hide it. Just accept it try hard to get it if you are dying to get it and if you still can’t make it, its fine. Demand is never a need.

In our society from the childhood girls are brought up in constant threat and fear like who knows what kind of guy will select her, where she will be get settled. She is taught that behave this way and not that way because one day i.e. almost after 20 years she is going to get married to someone who she doesn’t know how would be. For a guy there is only one expectation and that is “bas ho jaye”. Girls face so many restrictions there are so many rules for her there are number of things she has to learn everyday but boys are not even taught the basics. 2 year old girls proposal to buy a Barbie can be rejected but a boy’s demand to buy a car will never get rejected. He would get everything he wants and this is where this I can’t hear “No” or no one can say no to me behavior comes in.
So don’t make these mistakes with upcoming generations teach them the basics and that is exactly where the respect for the girls comes from.